Loves Me, Loves Me Not

Mystic Saira • 3 February 2020

Is it love?

The perrenial question of whether the object of our affection truly loves us or not is one that is constantly being asked of Psychic readers, and is always a sensitive question to answer, and often surrounded by confusing signals.
 
Usually, if our beau or belle paints a picture of a future together, is inclusive and interested in how both you and they picture it, is open and genuinely communicative, always keeping in constant touch and touching base even when things are busy, then we can be safely assured of their sincere intentions.
 
But what if that is not the case, and one does not know where one stands, and the communication is not there? What can one do about it?
 
Sometimes it can simply be the case that our intended partner is not a great communicator, is "backwards in coming forwards". This can be a relatively easy situation to turn around.
Deciding whether to walk away can be agonising.If they don't call, or talk about a future together, or even repeat those three words, then maybe it is not part of their plan. 
 
Just because we have feelings for them does not always mean that they feel the same way, and this can be a painful realisation and one that ultimately we must accept if we ever want to heal and move on. 
 
We cannot control another person or subvert their will to our own, as other than being a negative act, it is also highly unethical and eventually leads to disappointment.
Equally, if we have allowed a situation to arise where we are always at their beck and call, a slave to their will, then why would we expect things to change?
 
Sometimes it takes real courage to change the power dynamic in a relationship and it does present some risk.  Many people are afraid that if they stand up for themselves, that they will lose the other person. Relationships take courage and are a test of our inner authenticity and ability to be who we truly are and speak our truths.
 
Everyone has the choice to seek the kind of relationship that they feel comfortable in, but the reality is that many people end up in co-dependent relationships that are not healthy, whereas the ideal model might be thought of as "co-independence" allowing each partner to be truly themselves without control, fear or coercion, in the knowledge that their partner supports them come what may. 
 
If you are feeling at a loss with what to do about a relationship, take a big step back and start to look at things from a healthier perspective.  Many people will stay stuck in a situation like this because they believe that they will not find love again and this simply isn't true. 
 
What is true, is that if you hold onto a relationship that will never fulfill you, you are not open to new love coming into your life.  Some people will stay stuck in yearning for a certain person for years and this isn't healthy for anyone.
 
We cannot change the way someone is, and we cannot change the way someone behaves and if they do not wish to commit to a relationship then you need to let go and find someone who can.
 
It is easy to idealise someone and imagine them to be the person that we created them to be in our minds, even when all the evidence is to the contrary. Quite often in these types of relationships, the person with the sincere intentions of commitment will end up shouldering the blame for the breakup. 
 
Do not allow yourself to take the blame for another's shortcomings.  Walking away can be a very empowering act, as you are saying to the Universe that you are not prepared to settle for second best.
 
As said before, deciding what to do with a relationship isn't easy, but always remember that you do have a choice and there are always new doors opening for us when we are ready.
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